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We all create our reality with our thoughts and feelings....literally from the Inside---out! Our feelings and thoughts manifest into what we call our "reality," in other words, our "life situations/experiences," or whatever you wish to call them. Sounds like a big responsibility, but whether you wish to realize this, or ignore it, it IS a choice, as is everything. If we relax into the knowing that we are responsible for our life, then we have the power to change it. Blame to others and to situations that cause problems only leaves us feeling powerless, and actually renders us powerless (as you cannot give away anything that you do not "own"). For, as said in the movie, "The Secret," by Rhonda Bryne, "Whether you think you can't or can...either way you are right."

By taking the initial step of consideration that our thoughts and feelings do indeed create our reality, you have begun to start the experience of a wonderful, joyful, abundant and happy life...that is, once you get the true "feeling" of understanding.

Our thoughts are unlimited, and hence, so are we. We are true reflections of God, which is Love...the Source of Everything, and the only "Real" and true Energy in the Universe....Life, Love, Truth, Abundance, Peace....all these things are God, and we are That. We, therefore, have that "creative" power to create our reality, and we do that simply, effortlessly, and oftentimes, without realization that we are creating our reality, literally all the time! We will create reactively and unconsciously, that is, until we don't; until we are conscious of that truth.

And this concept and realization is my reason for starting this blog. To inform, give to our community, to all of you, to uplift the planet's consciousness, to create a better Now....which is actually giving to myself, as we are all connected...truly there is only One Supreme Being sitting here, and our reality consists of that glorious Being manifested into individual units of Loving Energy, called "Souls," "Life Forms," etc.

We are all on this journey together, to discover this wonderful realization and then to manifest the most glorious experience of Life possible!

This, I know for sure.

Connecting to Source, realizations will occur....we can all do this, and we do...the only question is are we doing this consciously or unconsciously? The more awareness we place on what we feel and think, the more we will be able to create Consciously, rather than unconsciously, or reactively.

Join me to view some realizations that have literally occurred from "The Inside---Out!"

Many Blessings!

Ellen Angelica Pendergast

Aug 22

When we misunderstand, which for the most part, usually implies that we did not get what was said (‘get’ meaning the true communication of an idea, feeling, etc.) we usually blame the other. We feel many things in relation to this: we may feel embarrassed, angry, guilty or confused; in other words, all negative emotions. Our ability to understand is endless, as we are unlimited…so what gives?

Why are we ever in the mode of a misunderstanding if we are truly LOVE?

The answer is AWARENESS. We sometimes will block our good through fear and a lack of awareness (which really implies being ‘unconscious’).  We do this as part of our path, and the path of that person we have misunderstood. Yes, we DO this as a way of EVOLUTIONIZING on a Spiritual Level. We cannot have good without bad, or up without down, or hot without cold; hence, we cannot understand often until we have at first MISUNDERSTOOD. We do this for clarity, realizing, and to produce a closer connection, which is always another way to eventually experience and show Love.

We oftentimes will go to extremes to communicate that we have been misunderstood or feel misunderstood, and at first it may appear to be very negative, indeed. We may show anger, disconnect, non-compliance, etc., all to prove how misunderstood we feel. We also may give someone the ‘cold shoulder,’ hoping they will somehow notice a change and ASK what the problem may be in our difference in mood or demeanor. And usually, unless we truly make an effort, things will not get better, until ONE or BOTH decide to be LOVE.

The first thing to remember (and I mean this literally, to RE-MEMBER; to become a member once again), is to realize that a person may mean something other than what they just did or said. A better way to accept this is to know that no one really wants to be misunderstood or viewed as being thoughtless, inconsiderate, or rude. It is therefore, a lack of awareness on the part of the one being misunderstood as well as the one suffering because they are both feeling the result of that negative comment or abandoning action. Both must awake/become aware of the situation, and discuss how they are feeling, for FEELING is everything. Our feelings bring on life experiences and those life experiences become our LIVES!

If there is a misunderstanding it is important to address it with that other, and for that other to listen with their heart/with an awareness of whom that person means to them, and how much the relationship means to them also. What they both decide to be IN RELATION to the situation is what “RELATIONSHIPS” are meant for, and why they are sacred, for without them, we are not, meaning that we experience ourselves through what we decide to be in every grand moment of now, and you cannot decide to be anything in such a grand and magnificent way as completely, as when you are in a relationship with another. (For more information on this subject, please read the book, “Conversations With God, Book 1,” by Neale Donald Walsch.

Therefore, when misunderstood, or feeling victimized due to a misunderstanding, remember that this is a wonderful opportunity to decide who and what you wish to be in relation to it.

And as always, for the best outcome and fastest way to solve any problem, the most highest to be in relation to anything is always Love.

Blessings!